在你感觉到压力之前

《在你感觉到压力之前/Before you feel pressure》

I know people who graduated at 21 and didn't get a job until they were 27.

我知道有些人21岁毕业，直到27岁才找到工作

I know people who graduated late at 25 and they found work immediately.

我认识一些25岁才毕业的人，他们很快就找到了工作

I know people who never went to university, but found what they love at 18.

我认识一些人，他们从未上过大学，却在18岁找到了自己喜欢的东西

I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money, but hate what they do.

我认识一些人，他们大学一毕业就找到了工作，挣得不错，但却讨厌自己的工作

I know people who took gap years and found their purpose.

我认识一些人，他们通过间隔年找到了自己的人生目标

I know people who were so sure about what they were going to do at 16, they change their mind at 26.

我认识一些人，他们16岁时很确定自己要做什么，到了26岁就改变了主意

I know people who have children but are single, and I know people who are married but had to wait 8 to 10 years to have children.

我知道有些人有了孩子却单身，也知道有些人结了婚却等了8到10年才要孩子

I know people in relationships who love someone else.

我认识一些恋爱中的人，他们爱着别人

I know people who love each other but aren't together.

我认识相爱却不在一起的人

So my point is, everything in life happens according to our time, our clock.

我的观点是，生活中的每件事都是根据我们的时间，我们的时钟发生的

You may look at some of your friends and think that they're ahead of you, maybe some of them you fell are behind, but everything happens at their own pace.

看着你的一些朋友，你可能会觉得他们在你前面，也许有些人在你后面，但是每件事都有它自己的节奏

They have their own time and clock and so do you.

他们有自己的时间和时钟，你也一样

Be patient.

要有耐心

Getting your degree after 25 is still an achievement.

25岁以后拿到学位仍然是一种成就

Not being married at 30 but still happy is beautiful.

30岁以后成家还是有可能的

Starting a family after 35 is still possible, and buying a house after 40 is still great.

35岁以后成家还是有可能的，40岁以后买房也不错

Don't let anyone rush you with their timelines.

不要让任何人用他们的时间表催促着你

"Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that's counted truly counts."

并不是所有有价值的东西都能被计算，也不是所有有价值的东西都有价值

And this is the most important thing, I want you to be able to create meaningful, purposeful, fulfilling lives for yourselves, and learn how to use that to make an impact and a difference in the lives of others.

这是最重要的事情，我希望你们能够为自己创造有意义，有目的，充实的生活，并学习如何利用这些来影响和改变他人的生活