反驳别人还在说“I don't think so”？情商太低了！
At work or university, with colleagues and friends, in a business meeting or discussion with your professor, sometimes it's necessary to disagree or say no.
在工作场合或大学里，与同事和朋友，进行商务会议或与你的教授讨论问题，有时是有必要表示不同意或说不的。
And that is ok! In English-speaking culture, it is important to share your opinion and express your ideas. But how should you do that in English politely?
这没关系!在英语文化中，分享你的观点和表达你的想法是很重要的。但是怎么用英语礼貌地表达不同意这件事呢？
With this lesson, you'll learn the best English phrases you can use to show you disagree in both formal and informal situations without offending anyone. These expressions will also help you learn how to share your opinion.
在这节课中，你将学习在正式和非正式场合能最好表达你的不同意见而同时又不会冒犯别人的英语短语。这些表达也会帮助你学会如何分享你的观点。
But one thing is important to remember: Always stay calm.
但有一件事很重要，要记住：永远保持冷静。
Keep your voice and your body movements calm that will help you and the other person feel good about the disagreement. The goal is for everyone to walk away from the disagreement happy (or at least not angry).
让你的声音和肢体动作保持平静，这将有助于你和对方保持里良好的感受。这样做的目的是让每个人都能愉快地(或至少不生气)结束分歧。
The most polite way to disagree with someone is to use one of these strategies when introducing your disagreement:
表达不同意见最礼貌的方式是在表达不同意见时使用以下策略之一
①show that you understand the other person’s opinion
表现出你理解对方的观点
②apologize before introducing your disagreement
在提出异议之前先道歉
③pretend to be in the middle or unsure about your position
假装中立或不确定
I see what you’re saying but I think…
我知道你说的是什么意思但是我觉得...
I take your point but that isn’t the way I see it; instead, I think that…
我接受你的观点但是我想地有些不同，我反而认为...
True, that is a fair point, but I have to say I disagree…
是的，这个观点很中肯，但是我还是想说我有不同意见...
I understand where you are coming from but…
我了解你的出发点但是...
There is some truth to what you’re saying but don’t you think that…
你说的确实占理但是你不觉得...
I respect your point but from my perspective (or but in my opinion)…
我尊重你的观点，但就我的观点而言...
I’m sorry but I have to disagree with you on…
抱歉我对...持不同的观点
I’m sorry but I don’t agree.
抱歉但是我并不同意。
I’m sorry but I disagree with you on this.
抱歉但是这个问题我不太同意你说的。
I’m not sure I agree with you on…
我对于你...的观点不太确定
I respectfully disagree.
我真心表示无法苟同。
I don’t think you and I have the same opinion on this issue.
我认为我和你在这个问题上有些不同的想法。
I’m afraid I disagree.
我怕是不能认同。
With close friends and family, we can use these more informal (and often direct) expressions to say we disagree. These would not be appropriate for the workplace unless you know your colleagues very well.
对于亲密的朋友和家人，我们可以用这些非正式的(通常是直接的)的表达。除非你非常了解你的同事，否则这些在工作场合是不合适的。
No way!
不行！
You must be joking!
开玩笑吧你！
You can’t be serious!
不是说真的吧！
I totally disagree.
我完全不同意。
I don’t think so.
我不这么认为。
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