“喜欢你,但不想再委屈自己”
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写在最后:
那一天,我们之间有了分歧和争吵,你回避冲突,搁置了矛盾。
有一天,我想起来了,希望解决矛盾,而你觉得过去了,选择了继续回避。
我只能日渐失望,积压时久。
其实,没人喜欢翻旧帐。
被翻旧帐的人很无奈,但是翻旧帐的那个人更痛苦,那些过往,像刺一样扎在心里。
一件一件的细数出来,就好像在揭自己的伤疤,看着自己是如何委曲求全的走到现在,如何学着改变适应妥协,如何说服自己做个懂事体贴的女朋友。
曾经有粉丝告诉兔姐,男朋友总说她“你怎么这么喜欢翻旧帐?”,简单一句反问,就把矛盾点转移到了她身上。
本来是他“回避问题,不愿承担”,变成了她“锱铢必较,喜欢记仇”。
时间久了,也会累的。
再喜欢,也不想继续委屈自己了。
否则,那些明明可以正常交流解决的问题,最后只会在未来的某一天,爆发。
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