一招让前任嫉妒：How do I make my ex jealous
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Look at the pictures of your ex and talk to friends about him or her to see what you feel.
看看前任的照片，或者和朋友聊一下前任，看一下自己是什么感觉。
Adele's new hit song 'Hello' has become much more than just a comforting break-up anthem for women hurt by past relationships. According to a new study, the track has inspired 64 percent of women to contact their exes in an attempt to make amends and get back together.
英国歌手阿黛尔（Adele）的全新热门歌曲《Hello》，对于在以往恋情中受伤的女性而言，已经不单单是一首治愈的分手歌曲了。一项新的研究表明，这首歌曲已经激励了64%的女性与前任联系，为了弥补过错重归于好。
Women are more open to discussing what went wrong in their relationships, while the majority of men prefer to simply move on with their lives.
女性更乐于谈论恋情中出现的问题，而大多数男性则更喜欢忘掉过去重新开始。
So，问题来了——
"How do I make my ex jealous?" (snickers)
“怎么让前任嫉妒？”（窃笑）
(disapprovingly) Oh no. You're not supposed to. That's just mean.
（不以为然地）哦不。你不应该这样做。这样太刻薄了。
You don't. (chuckles) You get over your ex. That's why he's an ex.
你不能这样做。（呵呵）你要忘掉你的前任。因为这样他才成为了前任。
Try and go on to somebody else. Don't try and make an ex jealous.
试着和其他人交往。不要试图让你的前任嫉妒。
Why not just be happy with what you had and go on to your next friend.
你为什么不能满足于你拥有的，去迎接下一段恋情呢。
It's a better way to hang out with someone else.
可以和其他人出去约会。
How do you make him jealous? Go out with his best friend.
怎么让他嫉妒？和他最好的朋友出去玩。
I say like, date another person who's like, 10 times hotter than your ex.
和比前任性感十倍的人约会。
Don't cry over him. Make him cry over the booty that he lost.
不要为他哭泣。要让他为他失去的性感尤物哭泣。
By just being youself and not caring to make your ex jealous.
你可以通过毫无关心来让前任嫉妒。
Make your ex jealous--It's not that difficult. As a matter of fact, it's quite easy. But after a rough break-up or divorce, it's not easy to get back in the game, so you may need some help.
使前任妒忌，其实并非难事。但是，经过痛苦的分手或离婚后，重新开始恋爱生活并不容易，所以你需要一些帮助。
You Will Need Six Steps
你需要以下六个步骤
Step 1
Determine that you're ready
做好准备
Figure out if you're ready to date again. If you can picture yourself with somebody other than your ex, you might be ready to start. If you still hurt, you may need more time.
反省一下，自己是否做好了重新开始约会的准备。如果你能够想象出自己和前任以外的其他人在一起的情景，你或许可以重新开始了。如果你仍然很伤心，或许你还需要一点时间。
Step 2
Determine if you can handle rejection
遭受拒绝自己能否接受
Picture yourself getting rejected, and ask yourself if you can handle it. Once you know you can, there's no reason to hold back.
想像一下，如果自己被拒绝，能否恰当应对。一旦知道自己可以处理，就没有理由停滞不前。
Step 3
Get involved
参加俱乐部
Join as many different clubs, groups, and organizations as you can. This will get you out there meeting people without actually going on a date. Try online dating. Even if you never follow through on any dates, it's an emotional step in the right direction.
尽量多参加一些不同的俱乐部，团体或组织。这样可以让你水到渠成地多认识一些人，而不需要专门去约会。还可以尝试网上约会。即使你不能遇到合适的约会对象，这也是向正确的方向前进的令人激动的一步。
Step 4
Define your needs
确定自己的需求
Define what you want and need--to yourself and whomever you begin seeing. It's important to be honest with people so you can avoid wasting time.
确定自己的要求和需求——对自己的和对约会对象的。待人真诚，这很重要，可以避免浪费时间。
Step 5
Persist
坚持
Be persistent. Dating invariably involves failures and awkward situations. Learn to laugh at them and chalk them up to experience. Don’t always blame yourself when a date goes poorly; but also be honest with yourself.
持之以恒。约会难免遇到失败和尴尬的情景。学会笑着面对，当作难忘的经历。如果约会情况不尽如人意，不要总是责怪自己；但是对自己要坦诚。
Step 6
Allow yourself to be happy
开心面对
Allow yourself to have fun and be happy. Treat dating as an experience rather than an inconvenience, and you will find the right person.
允许自己开开心心地生活。把约会当成一种经历，而不是一种麻烦，你一定会找到心仪的另一半。
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