抱怨别人 = 折磨自己
抱怨别人 = 折磨自己
嫉妒别人 = 作践自己

羡慕别人 = 浪费自己
怨恨别人 = 气坏自己

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欺骗别人 = 骗了自己
失信别人 = 毁了自己
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贪恋别人 = 烦恼自己
阻碍别人 = 陷害自己
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慈悲别人 = 快乐自己
尊重别人 = 敬重自己
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宽容别人 = 豁达自己
随喜别人 = 富贵自己
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帮助别人 = 善待自己
平等待人 = 富足自己