“WHO I AM” Fun Stories at the Enneagram Class｜“我是谁”好玩的九型课花絮 / 四六文摘

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#深度沟通2:九型人格

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本文为中英文对照发布，一次好玩的尝试：

The three-day Enneagram lecture is always full of fun and great times to cherish. I would like to share the stories of my first Enneagram open lecture in 2016 in Shanghai, hopefully a great inspiration to all the passionate and curious learners out there.

The Enneagram lecture contents are similar, yet every lecturer is spcial in his/her own way and brings their unique point of view to the table, making the class vibrantly interesting. The importance of the messenger even surpasses the lecture itself, isn’t that right?

“我们终将借助九型人格和其他各种小船，渡过生命河流而到达另一个世界的彼岸相见，在那里，我们不再有二元分别心，我们通过了解自己而了解世界和生命，褪去染污，还生命本来面目，从而超越生命，甚至超越了超越，到达最后的圆满，这不正是我们每一个学习和传播九型人格的人们所希望的吗？”－－三山

三天九型课总是那么好玩，好多精彩不忍随风逝去，重发2016年我在上海的第一次九型人格公开课花絮分享，愿对热爱学习充满好奇的你有所裨益。

九型课程的基本内容大同小异，但每个讲解九型课程的老师都独一无二，也必然会带着他们自己对课程独特的理解，这让九型的教学更摇曳多姿。传递者个体的重要性甚至超过了课程本身，不是吗？

At my lecture, I always make promise with my students before I start explaining each personality type:

1、Respect that everyone has their own growth pace and pattern, do not stereotype yourself or anyone.

2、The Enneagram knowledge is worth learning lifelong.

3、Nobody knows you better than yourself.

4、People may exhibit traits of distinct personality types in different stages of life.

5、Stage of life and mental state when taking the Enneagram Test – in good health of under pressure, grasp of the questions, honesty to the answers, all would affect the test results. Therefore, the answer only serves as a guideline.

6、The personality type others think you are is only a reference—even though this “other person” might be an authority figure. Other people’s opinion provides another angle for you to observe yourself. No need to defend or prove you are certain type or not. The important takeaway here is introspection – why do I leave people with such an impression – as this is a great opportunity to learn, regardless of right or wrong, it is only about learning.

在我的课堂上，开始讲解每个型号之前，我会跟学员约定：

1、尊重每个人成长的节奏和方式，请不要急于给自己或别人贴标签。

2、九型需要用一生去学习

3、没有人比你更了解你自己

4、人在不同的人生阶段会活出不同的型号特征

5、做测试题的时候的人生状态－－健康或压力状态、对题目的理解程度是否坦诚面对内心等等，都会影响测试结果，测试题的答案仅供参考。

6、别人觉得你是几号仅供参考－－哪怕这个“别人”是权威，外界的看法只是让你多了一个看自己的角度。与其去辩解和证明自己是或不是几号，不如内省一下为何自己会给别人这种看法－－这正是一个绝佳的学习的时机，无关对错，只关于学习。

教学相长，老师认真讲学员认真学

－－我的九型课收费，更收态度。

Therefore, no one would give you a ready-made answer at my lecture. All we have here is a guideline and a map, showing you possible routes on your quest to discovering “who I am”. The lecture has been helpful to many, hopefully you will benefit from it as well - but remember, there is always more than one way to reach your answer.

所以，在我的课堂上，没有人会告诉你一个现成的答案，这里只有一个指示牌和路线图，告诉你解答“我是谁”这个问题的可行路线之一，已经有无数人走过，觉得有效，希望你也能从中受益－－但是，这绝不是唯一的路线，也请你明白。

With that being said, we begin the unknown and adventurous quest of getting to know ourselves.

Type 2 shared that her homemade cuisine on social media has gotten so popular that she made 300 buns and passed them out to the entire neighborhood……

Type 3 is always the quickest one to press the elevator button – he cannot afford to wait for others to do it, what if he missed some once in a lifetime opportunity because of the loss of those a few seconds?

拥有这些基本观点之后，让我们开始这趟充满了冒险和未知的自我认识之旅。

2号朋友分享说有时自己动手做点美食，发了朋友圈后很多人想吃，最后她一次做了300个包子，300个！据说整个小区的人都吃到了......

3号说等电梯的时候总是第一个去按－－因为别人太慢了，说不定就慢那么几秒钟，会让自己错失了人生中成功的机遇呢？

Type 3 Korean guy speaks Mandarin very well, he said a great jawline is worth dying for. 3号人格韩国欧巴的中文不错，他说为了有一个漂亮的下巴去死都可以。

Type 4 stops to make a request, “can you turn the light down to fit my mood right now….” As to what flower petals to put in the bath, he numbered more than ten choices……4号讲到一半忽然说“我觉得分享到这里的时候，你们能不能把灯光调得稍微暗一点，这样才适合我现在的心情……”至于浴缸里撒花瓣的事情，4号说其实有十几种花瓣可以选择……

Type 4 is now an actor after 10 years’ experience in painting. He wonders: what type of woman would suit me the best? 画画10年转做演员的4号困惑：什么样的女人适合我呢？

Type 5 sits in the back row, quietly observing.

Type 6 worries about the chandelier and suggests that we use a net to wrap it so it would not fall…… and he jumps right into attack mode every time he feels insecure.

Type 7 finds a funny excuse every time he is late for work, and yet it works every time as his boss is cracked up laughing.

5号安静地坐在最后一排默默观察，并不上来发言。

6号抱怨说会场的吊灯感觉不安全，建议能不能找一个大网子兜住......还有，每次感觉不安全的时候，都会先发制人主动出击，而且一招制敌......

7号说每次迟到都会找一个很好玩的理由跟老板撒娇，然后，然后每次都过关了，因为老板被逗得哈哈大笑……

The whole class is cracked up laughing by Type 7’s sharing.

逗比7号们的分享让课室笑声不断。

Type 8 announces “Death to all who oppose me” ……

8号说“挡我者死”……

Type 8 boss……

8号老大......

Type 9 brags he did absolutely nothing yet still got himself a very capable and beautiful wife……

9号说反正我什么也没做，我就娶到了一个很能干漂亮的老婆……

Type 1 insists that toothpaste should be squeezed from the bottom up and towels hung neat, and wonders how can anybody at all not be able to complete such simple tasks?

1号说牙膏一定要从尾部往上挤，毛巾一定要按照标准挂好，

这么简单的事情为什么总是有人做不到呢？

Type 3 easily mistakes himself for other types, while other types rarely mistake themselves for Type 3. Type 6 sometimes thinks she is Type 8. Type 8 thinks it is difficult to relate to Type 2. Type 6 falls into disbelief when heard that he should learn from Type 9. Type 1 is just like Type 7 when he jokes around. Type 5 sees through everyone in the room but keeps quiet himself. Type 4 did not notice Type 1 is her teacher.

3号很容易把自己误认为其他型号，其他型号很少把自己误认为3号，6号有时会以为自己是8号，8号觉得向2号迁善挺难的，6号听说要向9号学习更怀疑了，1号逗比的时候完全就是个7号，5号看懂了全场，却还是坐着不动，4号不知道1号是自己的老师......

Type 3 shares her plan after retirement – would you believe this gorgeous lady is 60 years old? She is the eldest student of mine. After attending my《Self-Training》lecture in Shenzhen, she comes to Shanghai for my 《Enneagram》lecture. She vigorously travels around the world, running several companies as owner and CEO, serving more than 30 years at two of them.

3号在分享自己退休以后的新目标－－看得出来这位美女60岁了吗？她是我课堂上年龄最大的学员，在深圳听完我的《自我教练》课又赶到上海来听《九型人格》，精力充沛的她奔波世界各地，目前作为股东和管理者运营着五六个企业，其中有2家已经超过30年以上。

Type 6 recognizes that she is stressed out. Type 3 keeps chasing different goals and leaves them right behind once he reachs them. He now finds a new goal after retirement – to live in more people’s mind. Type 4 is aware that his career needs a change. Ambitious Type 8 longs to ring the bell at Nasdaq and bringing his son with him. Type 1 said finally he finds the “place of peace for his soul” – to become a noble person……

6号承认自己确实焦虑过度了，3号一生中不断追求一个又一个目标并在达成后转身离去，退休后又找到人生新的目标－－活在更多人的心中，4号发现自己的职业需要调整，野心勃勃的8号说要带着自己的儿子在纳斯达克敲钟，1号说终于找到了“灵魂的安放之处”－－做一个高尚的人......

Graduation, time to say goodbye,

start from here and hope each of us reach our respective destinations in life,

live life to the fullest……

毕业啦，天下无不散的筵席，

愿你们从这里出发，

找到各自的人生使命，

活出真我.....

Passion and interest are the best teachers, perseverance always pays off. Learning Enneagram has been a fruitful path filled with joys and tears. Grateful to time, the ultimate teacher, for always bringing new quest……

Teaching is another good way of learning,

I am a humble and curious disciple in the Enneagram world.

热爱和兴趣是最好的老师，念念不忘必有回响，多年前学习九型就是为了每次看到这样的场景吧，梦想实现的路上甘苦自知，妙处难与君说，感恩岁月这位老师一直在布置功课……