漫画丨“哪怕吃土,我的人生我自主!”






































自己选的路,跪着也自如?
“多”说两句
自由选择人生道路,确实是自己的权利
没得选或被做主,也确实不爽
然而,总有些东西是我们无法选择的
比如自己的“选择判断力”
接受结果,并非最好
被安排,也并非最坏
想要更好,就瞄向未来去争取
而一心想退回过去,永远放不下曾经,以为重做选择就能逆转未来的想法,是幼稚可笑的
多多有个堂哥,标准的学霸,能上清北的那种
当年高考填报志愿时,他毅然选择了某包吃穿住用、包分配的院校
然而,他父亲(我姑父)偷偷将其志愿改为普通双一流大学
收到录取通知书后,堂哥震怒,几乎和姑父断绝父子关系,数年没回家
到此为止,我还是同情他的
但之后,他因为咽不下这口气荒废学业最终拿到肄业证的举动,让我大为唏嘘
幸亏没如他所愿进了那个“包分配的院校”,否则以他的性格,万一大失所望想出又出不来,被强迫就范之下,岂不爆炸?
(纯属多多个人狭隘臆断)
人生选择,也许并没有想象中那么玄乎
因为我们认定的“最佳选项”,往往都是事后才看到的
即便选项有好有坏,当初选择时,都充满着随机
好比电脑随机出的彩票,和你自己选号的彩票,中奖概率是一样的
只不过,我们“被做主”了,遇有不如意,总还有个怪罪对象
而自己选的,即便不如意,还能怨谁?
任何物质条件的差别,都没心态的差别带来的影响大
学会接受,是一种妥协,是一种实惠,也是一种智慧
天凉好个秋,不是无奈,而是释怀





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